Use of name in conversation

Question:
Is it more polite to address someone by name when you are talking with them or just to talk directly without ever using their name? For instance, "It's nice to see you - how have you been?" Or, "It's nice to see you, Charlie - how have you been?" Or, for instance - "Wow, Barbara, you really look good in that outfit!" - or, "Wow, you really look good in that outfit!"
Beverly

Answer:
There's no polite rule per se on using someone's name in the manner you inquired about. However, from a psychological standpoint, the use of someone's name in a conversation tells that person that they are important to you. It's always as good idea to try and remember to use people's names for that reason.