My sisters and I are throwing my parents a party for their wedding anniversary. Its a BBQ and we want it to pretty laid back to reflect who they are. We are planning on sending our parents on a much needed vacation for a gift. We would like to state on the invitations that no gifts are necessary, but we know some people may still want to send something anyways. Since our parents have everything they want, my question is, how do we properly say on the invitations, no gifts, however, if you would like to contribute to a vacation gift, that would be appreciated or your money will go towards their trip, ....etc....? Or is this a huge no no.....?? As a side note, our family members and friends that we are inviting are very laid back as well, and we dont think anyone would take offence to this we just dont know how to say it. Ultimately, no gift (cash or other) is necessary, as we just want to celebrate 25 years together. Thanks for any help!
Dayna
Answer:
You put "No Gifts Please" on the invitation. Those who truly want to bring a gift will, and the rest will not. It is never proper to ask or hint for cash gifts--it's the ultimate no-no!
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